Pulling Back From The Edge of the Abyss

It's been almost a month now since I last wrote this blog. I've hung out in a severe crisis mode which stifled my voice. I'm still feeling run down. I wear my weariness like a shroud. It is hard to even think. Someone is praying for me now. I can feel it.

Both physical and financial situation is still very bleak. Yet I have been blessed even in this state. I can still praise God for what I do have. I can be renewed like an eagle flying high.

I do feel sick when I focus on the world around me. So many are hanging on the edge of the abyss waiting for something to happen. Someone knows my struggle. There is a light. I can't see it now. I can't lose hope. I must hang on.

I am weary, Lord. My family needs your healing touch. I know that something has to give pretty soon. Lord, your word is true. I know that you will provide for all my needs. It is so hard to trust you. I am being foolish. I can't give into my fears. I have to believe that you won't let my worst fears become a reality. You will establish a stable environment for me and my family. You will provide for us financially with sustainable work. You will heal my father and mother so they can praise you and bring glory to your name.

You are pulling me back from the edge of the abyss. I don't have to stay there. I can move forward and bring light and hope to my community and the surrounding communities. You give me the resources I need to succeed. I just have to believe it to receive it. I have to close my eyes to the negative forces that are threatening to pull me down. I need to embrace your holy word and live for you. You are my King and Savior.

Finding Beauty in the Ashes/On the Way Back from Oblivion

I don't recall a time when I really felt together. It has been a long hard road for me. I feel so tired at times that I can hardly keep my eyes open. Will I ever find that happiness? I just don't know. It is clear that there has to be some light at the end of this tunnel. I can see it but dimly now. I struggle as I pull myself up from oblivion.

There is some beauty in the ashes. I catch glimpses of it as I search for meaning. Lord, I admit that I don't know even where my next step will be. I don't know what to do. Look for the positive they say. I hear them. My mind tries to process the information. I feel frustrated and so alone. Where is the light?

I see glimmers of light and dark. My situation isn't as dire as I thought. Daylight is breaking through the darkness. Yet here I sit contemplating the darkness. I marvel that the Lord Jesus would embrace the darkness for me. He knows me. He snatches me from oblivion and sets my feet on solid ground. I begin to understand the sacrifice. He finds beauty in ashes.

It seems appropriate during Holy Week to reflect our purpose. Jesus has a purpose. His purpose is to save mankind. It is good to contemplate this sacrifice and embrace the meaning of Easter. We do find our purpose in Christ Jesus. He gives us a mission to spread the Good News. You can be saved. You can find your way out of oblivion. I have to believe this. I do have a purpose and there is meaning in my life.

Looking Up From the Well of Despair and Reaching Out for a Lifeline

It has been one of those weeks. I'm realizing that my situation is not good at all. Hope is fading for me to find any meaningful employment that pays me. I'm looking up from the well of despair with time ticking very loudly in the background. I feel my time is very limited here. I am grateful that I still have this house, but for how long? Three months? Six months? If I'm really lucky, maybe a year.

I have to admit that I'm scared. My housing situation is very precarious now. I don't know if I'll have the privilege of living in a home for much longer. I may be stuck living in an apartment soon if I can get one. My greatest fear, which is rapidly becoming a reality, is being homeless. It is a very real possibility now. I can no longer pretend that things are rosy. I can no longer pretend that things are going to be okay with me. They aren't.

I am struggling now trying to reach out for a lifeline before my "boat" sinks in the ocean. I just don't know where to turn. Looking up from the well of despair I can see a glimmer of light but it's too far away for me. Lord, I ask daily, why are you allowing me to sink into this well of despair? Is what I'm going through with my current situation going to benefit anyone? I need that lifeline now. I need that person to come alongside me and offer me a way out of this deep, dark pit.

I don't want to be poor. I hate it. I miss being able to purchase what I need to survive. I hate depending on others and seeing the resentment in their eyes. I loathe the looks on people's faces when they find out how poor you are. No one seems to understand. They just want to criticize you. Oh, Lord, I need a chance. I need someone to take a chance on me and hire me. Is that too much to ask? I'm desperate. Yet I know you see me even now in this pit. Answer my prayer, dear Lord for sustainable employment so I can continue to live if it's your will in a stable home and not an unstable apartment building.

The Season of Lent: Finding Beauty in Ashes

There are many articles and blogs on Isaiah 61:3. It is interesting to read the different interpretations of the verse. Every author brings a different "take" or meaning. I was at a meeting earlier this evening and this verse unconsciously came up in my mind after the meeting. One of the members chose to focus on what he calls the "Elephant story." I heard the story at least three times already but have yet come up with a focus.

Yes, I do agree that people do look at things in different ways depending on the information they receive. I also do agree that a lot of what we perceive is dependant on our physical understanding. Some people, like myself, are very visual. We like to see things in the physical realm. Others are more tactile. They see the object, but really don't take any meaning out of it. They have to touch it physically for it to be real. Then there are those that refuse to believe even though the evidence is right in front of them.

The season of Lent is a season of reflection. It is also a season to focus on God. I am beginning to understand a bit more about why the Lord has me where I am today. I need to bring the stabilization to those who desperately need it. I need to be able to open eyes to see the beauty in the ashes of a decaying community. I can't do it alone. I need the Lord to come alongside me. He has to be my focus.

As I ponder the questions that swirl around my head about the current state of our world, I often also wonder how I can focus on what's important. Our importance does come from God. When we realize this, we are doing wonderfully.

We can find beauty in ashes. Sometimes it just takes that rough road to truly understand.

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Life-Moving Past Crisis

This week was better than last week. I'm slowly but surely moving past the crisis that threw me for a loop. It is too easy to criticize when you're safe and secure in your own little world. You can even say that you should have done this or that. I know that I am doing the best that I can now. I can't listen to those people who find fault with what I do. They don't know me.

It is difficult to find meaning and purpose in life when you're in a crisis. You feel stuck. You are overwhelmed by all the choices. You feel frozen in place. Yet you know you do have to move. You can't stay where you are forever.

Last night I listened while the planning commission pleaded for partners. I understood that they were willing to just let it go. I have a good feeling though. I can't explain it. Someone is going to come and create something beautiful here. Someone will find meaning and purpose in their life by restoring this old building. I feel excited. I haven't felt this way for awhile. The Lord is going to work here, and it will be a miracle.

We definitely need some miracles. We need to start feeling secure again and stable in our environment. It is a long time coming. We just have to believe.

What will be the miracle? The miracle for me will be to see all these communities working together to create something beautiful. I believe it can happen. We can have vibrant and active communities without sacrificing ourselves to the globalists. We can establish a unique community, one that embraces good changes.

Lord knows we need some good changes to reverse the mindset most people carry about our communities. We need to be actively promoting good changes and help people reach their potential. We need to move past this crisis and grow from it, instead of wallowing in it.

Still in A "Pickle" but Seeing Some Daylight

I'm finally starting to get a good handle on my current situation. It helped that the pressure is off to perform a task I'm just not able to do. I do have to admire my sister and brother-in-law in the way they have come around. No, the situation isn't ideal. Yes, there are still many things to do that I still haven't done yet.

I am in a pickle because I do have limited resources available. Time is ticking. The nightmare of being homeless hangs over me. I have to fight the despair daily. I do see some daylight. All is not lost. I can see that the Lord is using me here to help others who are going through similar situations. I do have to keep reminding myself that I'm not alone.

The horrible week is almost a fading memory. The ramifications of what happened to us linger. It will be sometime before everything sinks in and a new direction is formed out of the ashes. I can survive this. I just have to remember that God is in control, not me.

I can praise God even in the midst of this heavy trial. I know that I am not alone. I do have the support I need to move forward. Yes, my financial situation is still very dire. Yes, I feel a little helpless because I can't give my parents the support they need. I sometimes feel very guilty. I won't give in to despair as some would love for me to do.

I admit that caring for two people is very exhausting. I am weary, yet I continue because I have no choice. At least I don't have a loving choice. Some would say that I should desert them in their time of need. I can't and I won't do that. They need me. I need them. I admit that it is very hard to see them deteriorate. Some days I wish for a magic wand. Other days are special. I am privileged even though I am still in a "pickle" that I'm not sure how to get out of now. The daylight is faint. I can hardly discern it in the murky horizon. Yet it is there.

An Horrible Week and Settling In for the Worst

When I last wrote this blog I was facing a family crisis. My sister and brother-in-law ganged up on me a couple of times threatening me with expulsion for not doing what they asked me to do. They couldn't understand my reluctance and fears. They still don't. It is irritating that they are making this out to be something that anyone can do. They just don't understand the risks.

I do want to talk to the doctor and get as much information as I can. I do believe that I was rushed to make a decision that could have severe repercussions. It has been a horrible week. I've only been able to manage things the past couple of days.

I'm settling in for the worst. I know that I need a clear head for everything that I'm going to be dealing with right now. In one way I am glad that they decided to take on the dreaded task. I do wonder however how long they can last or what happens when my loved one takes a turn for the worse. Will they still be there to pick up the pieces? The risk does increase each passing day, even though my loved one appears to be better.

Tonight was a little test. They passed, but what about the next time? I still feel very uncomfortable about the whole situation.